More than a bit of love

Something today has been quite unusual!!!!!!

I have been thinking about something.I thought i would want to share it here.

For me, this is blogging at it's best. Being able to create a community of individuals that share information and ideas that can make the community as a whole a better place. Thank you.

One of the things I have been thinking about is the "manner" of a person. "Manner" or "grace" is not something that you can learn from a book. Unfortunately, it is something you just have to be or to develop.

A great scene of modern grace on '30 Rock' the other day:

Liz and Jack went out to dinner at a very chic restaurant. As they sat down at the table, Jack immediately moved the candle from the center of the setting to the side of the table. Liz looked at him kinda funny, not understanding why he did that but, not really caring either. Later, however, when Liz reached across the table to steal some of Jack's food (as she always does), she realized he moved the candle so her sleeve wouldn't catch fire when she reached across the table. Jack's manner and grace were so attuned to her as a friend, that he knew her moves before she did. That tiny gesture ended up becoming the pivotal moment of the episode and changed the course of their business relationship. I'm telling you guys again, women notice the small stuff. They notice the gentleness/gentlemenliness more than if you use the right fork at dinner.

I'll be honest, my biggest obsession in life right now is not better shoes, more dresses or a bigger career but, to simply be a more graceful woman for my graceful man. So people, in the spirit of grace, manner and Valentine's Day, take a moment and share with me some of the little kindnesses that your man has done for you that made your heart flutter. Men might learn something and you might gain an even more graceful man, a gentleman.

Editor's Note: For my gay readers, I can only write this as I know it, a man loving a woman. Don't let this keep you from joining the conversation. If you have tiny acts of kindness from a boyfriend to a boyfriend, or girlfriend to a girlfriend, please share with us!Grace is Grace. It doesn't matter who you're lovin', it's how you're lovin'!

Random Musings

Sometime back i came across a fellow blogger..I am not aware who she is..I am not even aware where she lives, how she looks..But still i was able to relate so much to her blog..I was able to relate to all her emotions..

Today again seated on my couch,watching the IDIOT BOX,my mind is boggling over her blog and how though being strangers i was so much able to relate to her..May be every existing being has nearly the same kind of incidents to face and similar emotions in reply..I know i am talking junk but i remembered her Blog and the way i was touched..

I wish life bestow her with all happiness and strength..And from personal experience someone who has seem pain in a young age, has more courage and strength than any person could ever think :)

Maybe . . . there are moments in lifewhen you miss someone -- a parent, aspouse, a friend, a child -- so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real, so that once they are around you appreciate them more.

It was too real for me and i couldnt resist sharing..What do u guys think???

Random Musings

Sorry folks,i have been away for really long now :(..Dint find to time to catch up with others blog..So obviously din find time to update mine ;)..

Anyway life has come back to normal and i m doing good in all fronts..Some setbacks,but thats just walk of life..We cant crib abt it..To be frank there is loads to talk but even before i started i am in short of words..Will sit in peace another time and may be do blog writing..

As of this post,it is to tell that i am alive and kicking..Hope u guys are rocking too..C ya around

Its been a long time i thought of writing a blog.Today despite the fact that its very difficult for me to do so,i still have sat down to try it,to kill time.

I had a really good time all these months that i was away..But as of now i have lost my eyes and still attempting to write a blog..Truly necessity is the mother of invention..I remember typing without looking before with eyes,but that was a really different scenario as compared to now..But still i want to be able to start living independently and be able to do things that keep me busy..

Trust me a person who has worked since the age of 7 and now at 24 is made to sit down without just anything to do the whole day is a toil on its own..Loosing of eye is just one side of the coin..But sitting home and not being able to watch movies or read novels or play games or even go for a walk is just difficult..But the worst is not being able to eat your own food when it comes to Roti-curry..I prefer rice items these days ,as its a pain to dip roti in curry every time on a guess and eat :(..Regardless to say my family and friends have been good support :)..

Feel like if someone would be next to me and keep me occupied with gossips or just anything would be a Blessing in disguise..But i do realise its too much for the asking..As everyone has there own work to do :(..Hoping i start to learn to live with it..

But dono when i will start living with this...God Help Me!!!!

PS.Dont be surprised that there are no mistakes in my blog entry..As a dear friend has helped in editing all mistakes(about 53) and posting it successfully up here..To cheer up everyones mood after this sad blog:without doubts u would see more of my blogs now as i am completely jobless :)..Please guys dont expect editing always ;)

New Year,New Me

First of all a Happy New Year to All..It has been a eventful 2009,with family for me....I have had some fun filled days with cousins..And now i am officially back to work..I am quite happy with work too and am very happy that its the perfect job for me..I am totally satisfied and completely passionate abt the job i do...I believe that job satisfaction is the next big thing for a healthy life :)..

Apart from this i m moving to US in less than 2 days to deliver a lecture in Stanford..I am glad i have been given this priviledge and take this oppurtunity to thank my loved friend who has been a great source of inspiration and support in every step of my life and not to forget that he/she has been there between me and troubles encountering my life ...Thanks again :)..

Also i kindaa feel i have grown up so much more just at the start of this year..I have started to deal people and things in a matured way..Is it a new Meeeeeeeeeeee??Only time will tell..sigh*

Update Time :)

Its been quite an eventful month.Dono why i din blog..

My Trip to the US and India have been eventful..I directly migrated from freezing temp in US to just above boiling point temperature here..But both are good in its own way :)..

Its been a tough and hectic month for me..Both in office and home :)..I am glad that i have managed it both quite well :)..But there is undoubtedly no life without the ups and down..but i m sure i have managed the down side too very well for a change..I m gng back again..As many know i have mixed emotions..But i m not whining..As a concious choice should be respected and should be strived to tackle..Than rather whining :)..

For reasons immaterial,i will miss home :)..I will miss all my friends i have grown up with..I will miss love from the parental unit,not to forget my Dadu too :)..But i know i m gng back for a better future and of course to resurrect Prachi..But there are certain things i am confused..As all my friends are slowly getting hitched and i still live in darkness :)..As for some relationship which are falling apart,only time will say if they are lasting or just another passing cloud..But i have grown above all to accept life as it comes without complaining..As life is a huge bunch of surprises :),not as pleasant as a bunch of Red Roses for sure..But still they are good old white orchids ;)